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Planning to get Married? Congratulations!

We rejoice with you! We hope you will use this special time to deepen your relationship. A wedding is only for a day; a marriage is for a lifetime. Some people wish to marry at St. Dominic's; others wish to be married elsewhere. Some mixed-religion couples wish to be married by a minister or rabbi, but want their marriage recognized by the Church. Whatever your circumstances, we wish to assist.

Can anyone prepare for marriage at St. Dominic's?

Sorry, we can’t prepare everyone, but we can help those who are:

• Already registered parishioners (at least one year) or someone who lives within the parish boundaries;
• An associate member who has the permission of your own pastor;
• Someone who has a special circumstance. Please write a letter explaining your circumstances to the Pastor, Fr. Michael Hurley, and secure at a later date the permission of your own pastor.

How long does it take?

The Archdiocese of San Francisco requires a six-month preparation period.

What if we plan to get married at another parish?

We will prepare your required paperwork here and send it to the parish where you will be married. A total fee of $650 covers all of the classes required for preparation.

If you are not a parishioner or an associate member, please contact the pastor, Fr. Michael Hurley, O.P.,  to explain your special circumstances.

ClWHAT STEPS ARE REQUIRED?

1.  Register for Marriage Preparation

To begin the process please complete one of the following forms. If your wedding will take place at St Dominics complete the Marriage Covenant. If you wedding will take place in another church complete the Marriage Preparation Covenant.  If you have any questions please call Lolita Clemenson at (415) 567-7824 Ext. 103. If you are not a parishioner or an associate parishioner, please write a letter directly to the pastor Fr. Michael Hurley, OP (Frmichael@stdominics.org) to explain your special circumstances. 

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Marriage Covenant                        Marriage Preparation Covenant

2. Attend Introductory Marriage Prep Classes (2)

The first class both explains the process and provides an introduction to marriage; the second class is a discussion on "Alive Marriages." The classes are offered to couples on consecutive Wednesday and Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m.  Reservations are required. Contact Deacon Dino and Katharine Ornido via email: ornido@stdominics.org to reserve your spot. 

3. Attend an Introduction to Natural Family Planning class online

How will you and your Beloved answer the call to living a marriage that is open to life? In this intro class, you will learn the basics of fertility awareness and its importance in a healthy Christian marriage. Email Couple to Couple League Certified Teaching Couple, Sean & Christina Sullivan at livethelovenfp@gmail.com to register.  (A full course of 3 classes to learn the method of NFP is also offered. More information with dates and fees for this course can be found at www.ccli.org.)  

4. Take FOCCUS Inventory online and meet with our Marriage & Family Therapist

This is a wonderful opportunity for you as a couple to learn each other’s ideas about the different aspects that make a good marriage, and to identify those areas that still need to be discussed. It is not intended to assess compatibility or determine your marriage success.  

5. Meet with the Friar or Deacon three times

These meetings will explore the spirituality of the marriage, deepening your relationship, handling conflict and improving your communication.

6. Complete the following Engaged Couples program.

In addition to the classes at St. Dominic's, complete one of the following programs.  This is a requirement of the Archdiocese of San Francisco. 

• Catholic Marriage Prep.com 
• Engaged Encounter Retreat

7. Plan Wedding Ceremony

If you are marrying at St. Dominic’s, attend a Wedding Music Seminar and meet with our Wedding Coordinator.

8. Turn in Paperwork

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