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Planning to get Married? Congratulations!

We rejoice with you! We hope you will use this special time to deepen your relationship. A wedding is only for a day; a marriage is for a lifetime. Some people wish to marry at St. Dominic's; others wish to be married elsewhere. Some mixed-religion couples wish to be married by a minister or rabbi, but want their marriage recognized by the Church. Whatever your circumstances, we wish to assist.

Can anyone prepare for marriage at St. Dominic's?

Sorry, we can’t prepare everyone, but we can help those who are:

  • Already registered parishioners (at least one year) or someone who lives within the parish boundaries;
  • An associate member who has the permission of your own pastor;
  • Someone who has a special circumstance. Please write a letter explaining your circumstances to the Pastor, Fr. Michael Hurley, and secure at a later date the permission of your own pastor.
How long does it take?

The Archdiocese of San Francisco requires a six-month preparation period.

What if we plan to get married at another parish?

We will prepare your required paperwork here and send it to the parish where you will be married. A total fee of $650 covers all of the classes required for preparation.

If you are not a parishioner or an associate member, please contact the pastor, Fr. Michael Hurley, O.P.,  to explain your special circumstances.

WEDDINGS AT ST. DOMINIC'S

To Begin

Contact Lolita Clemenson at (415) 567-7824 x 103
or Lolitaclemenson@stdominics.org

To reserve a date at St. Dominic's

Please return a Marriage Covenant,
 Date Request,
and submit a deposit of $1000

Weddings times

Saturdays: 10:00 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 3:00 p.m.
Requests for Fridays are considered on a case-by-case basis
No weddings occur on Sundays or during Lent

Rehearsal times

Thursdays: 3:30 p.m.
Fridays: 3:30 p.m.

Fees

What are the fees?

  • Marriage Preparation, Church Rental and Wedding Coordinator: $3000
  • Marriage Preparation Only (getting married elsewhere): $650
  • Music Fees and Live Stream are additional

The $1000 deposit required to reserve a date is applied to the fees listed here. We do not turn away couples because of financial hardship. Talk to the priest assigned about what arrangements can be made.

ClWHAT STEPS ARE REQUIRED?

 
1.  Register for Marriage Preparation

To begin the process please complete one of the following forms. If your wedding will take place at St Dominics complete the Marriage Covenant. If you wedding will take place in another church complete the Marriage Preparation Covenant.  If you have any questions please call Lolita Clemenson at (415) 567-7824 Ext. 103. If you are not a parishioner or an associate parishioner, please write a letter directly to the pastor Fr. Michael Hurley, OP (Frmichael@stdominics.org) to explain your special circumstances. 

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Marriage Covenant                        Marriage Preparation Covenant

2. Attend Introductory Marriage Prep Classes (2)

The first class both explains the process and provides an introduction to marriage; the second class is a discussion on "Alive Marriages." The classes are offered to couples on consecutive Wednesday and Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m.  Reservations are required. Contact Deacon Dino and Katharine Ornido via email: ornido@stdominics.org to reserve your spot. 

3. Attend an Introduction to Natural Family Planning class online

How will you and your Beloved answer the call to living a marriage that is open to life? In this intro class, you will learn the basics of fertility awareness and its importance in a healthy Christian marriage. Email Couple to Couple League Certified Teaching Couple, Sean & Christina Sullivan at livethelovenfp@gmail.com to register.  (A full course of 3 classes to learn the method of NFP is also offered. More information with dates and fees for this course can be found at www.ccli.org.)  

4. Take FOCCUS Inventory online and meet with our Marriage & Family Therapist

This is a wonderful opportunity for you as a couple to learn each other’s ideas about the different aspects that make a good marriage, and to identify those areas that still need to be discussed. It is not intended to assess compatibility or determine your marriage success.  

5. Meet with the Friar or Deacon three times

These meetings will explore the spirituality of the marriage, deepening your relationship, handling conflict and improving your communication.

6. Complete the following Engaged Couples program.

In addition to the classes at St. Dominic's, complete one of the following programs.  This is a requirement of the Archdiocese of San Francisco. 

7. Plan Wedding Ceremony

If you are marrying at St. Dominic’s, attend a Wedding Music Seminar and meet with our Wedding Coordinator.

8. Turn in Paperwork

See sidebar

Check List

Initial Request

  Marriage Contract
  Date Request
  Deposit

Details

  Priest  __________________________________________
  Wedding Date/Time  __________________________
  Rehearsal Date/Time __________________________

Marriage Preparation

  Attend Marriage Prep I
  Attend Marriage Prep II
  Attend Introduction to NFP
  Complete FOCCUS Inventory Online
  Meet with Marriage & Family Therapist
  Complete Engaged Couples Program
  First Meeting with Priest
  Second Meeting with Priest
  Third Meeting with Priest

Ceremony Preparation

  Attend Wedding Music Seminar 
  Meet with Wedding Coordinator

Paperwork (All Couples)

  Reissued Baptismal Certificates (Bride and Groom)
  Form A x2 (English or Spanish)
  Form B x2 (English or Spanish)
  Engaged Couple Program Certificate of Completion
  Marriage License from City Hall (Contact the County Clerk at 415-554-4950 to make an appointment)

Paperwork (Some Couples)

  Blue Form (marrying outside the Archdiocese)
  Dispensation: Catholic marrying a non-Catholic
  Dispensation: Marriage by non-Catholic minister

Fees/Stipends

  Marriage Prep, Church Rental & Wedding Coordinator
  Live Stream

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

other resources 

Married Couples Group

A St. Dominic's ministry to support your marriage

For Your Marriage

Resources provided by the 
U.S. Catholic Conference of Bishops

Other Questions

Previously Married?

Please contact Lolita Clemenson to discuss what steps may be needed before a wedding date can be set.

Married Civilly?

You can prepare for a Convalidation to convert a civil marriage into the marriage sacrament. Contact Lolita Clemenson to discuss what preparation might be needed.